Alzheimer's disease or other dementia affects the way a person thinks, feels and behaves. Some of these behaviors may seem uncharacteristic or odd. Because of the dementia, the person cannot prevent or control these actions.Because communication can be difficult, a person with Alzheimer's disease or other dementia may use anger to express him/herself. Triggers for angry bouts can be exhaustion, pain, illness or frustration. Bring up a best-liked subject from the person's life journal, or take a break to change a bad mood into a good one.
Alzheimer's disease and other dementias impact the ability to reason, making questions and tasks difficult to understand. Just like most people, when asked to do something he/she doesn't understand or feel comfortable with, a person with dementia will often respond, "No!" Use a life journal to find a personal appeal to change a no to a "yes."
People with dementia often have difficulty speaking and writing. He or she might not say or come up with the right words. Looking for non-verbal clues can help.
For example, look for a:
Smile - happiness
Frown - discomfort
Grimace - pain
Because communication is difficult, health-related issues that cause discomfort, pain or sadness can lead your loved one to be frustrated, confused and act out. Be sure to monitor for these health issues so that you can work with medical professionals to relieve them and create a better quality of life for your loved one.
Some behaviors can put a person's or caregiver's emotional and physical well-being at risk. Inappropriate physical and/or emotional behaviors are common and include unhealthy eating habits, lack of hygiene and personal care, striking out, wandering, repetition, withdrawing from social situations and false accusations.
Managing behaviors that can put you or your loved one at risk is important. You may have to try several times in order to change a situation. Home Instead recommends choosing from among the five methods we have outlined here. In fact you may have to try "three times in three different ways." This means if a choice doesn't work then try apologizing, and then redirecting or any three combinations of the five options until you successfully change your loved one's behavior.
Give simple choices. This allows your loved one to calm down and feel in control. Assume they will do the task, but give choices/options of how, when and where they will do it.
Apologize or take the blame for the situation, even if it isn't your fault. This takes the attention off of your senior and it may help them calm down.
If the person suffering with dementia is doing or saying something inappropriate, redirect his/her attention to another topic or activity.
If an item or location is causing stress, physically remove the object that is bothering them or take the person to another room.
Use a journal to find memories and best loved activities that you can use to offer choices and redirect your loved one's attention to improve his/her mood and behaviors.
Respond to a negative behavior within the first 30 seconds of noticing it. Doing so can prevent a situation from escalating into a major problem and help keep you and your loved one safe. And don't forget to try "three times in three different ways" until you are able to change the challenging behavior into a good one.